Prepare to Quit Smoking
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These arguments come from Allnn Carr's stop smoking methodology. You can read his book or do a seminar. And for those out there who say 'it doesn't work': I read that book the first time in 2003, and probably more than ten times since. I attended the seminar three times. It was finally the online seminar that made the ideas click for me. (The breakthrough was the realisation that the response that says 'I want a cigarette' is a broken thought process that was learned, i.e. is not natural, and can be unlearned.) Now that the ideas have clicked into place for me I am absolutely certain I will never smoke again. When I hear the 'I want a cigarette' thought, I don't have a melancholy response that I can't smoke. I hated smoking! I have a happy response that I have learned how to get back to very close to the state I was in before I ever smoked at all.
Anyway, I am sure this article is well-intentioned, but I would strongly strongly suggest that if you haven't tried Allan Carr's method you give it a shot, and if you have tried it, give it another try. Smoking is a nightmare from which we all can awake.
It's about a year and a half since then, I still get cravings occasionally but they can be beaten by going for a walk and sucking up some second hand smoke.
I've got a eGo twist as a battery (you can alter how much power it gives you depending on how you like the vapour and you can screw a wide variety of attachments on) and a ViVi Nova for the tank part.
If you're looking to get into it I'd recommend ordering something like that online, with a couple of juices, buying a pack of cigs that you really hate and smoking them until it turns up. :)
It worked for me, but none of my friends. Just randomly deciding to never touch i again. A book i read that reminded me of the struggle, oddly enough, is The End of Overeating. http://www.amazon.com/The-End-Overeating-Insatiable-American...
Six years out, I'll say this. The "knowledge" of the smell never goes away, but the craving does, slowly. That is, I smell it, and I remember what it means, I know I want that sensation, but at the same time, I've had my peace with it and know it's not not for me anymore.
On very rare occasion, i'll end up inhaling tobacco (if it's combine with something else that i rarely smoke) without my knowledge. At this point the sensation is very very uncomfortable. While it is pleasurable, it's totally overwhelming, my heart races and everything is too intense for a couple minutes. Very odd feeling.
Stopping was difficult to do but I'd been thinking about it for a while and my mother getting diagnosed with a heart problem (she's smoked since she was 16) was a good incentive so I picked my 30th birthday and just stopped.
I initially used gum to manage the cravings but after a month or so I kept forgetting to pick the gum up or simply ran out so I stopped buying it.
For the first year or so I used to get sporadic random cravings (but I just visualized my mother on a heart machine clearly in my mind each time, talk about negative re-enforcement) but they've gone now.
My GF continued to smoke throughout before and after I quit which in theory should have made it harder but in reality actually worked in my favour after a month of not smoking the smell was nauseating.
I put quite a bit of weight on while I was stopping which took a while to lose but other than that and not getting a chest infection the last 3 winters (where I'd usually had one or two a year in the previous decade) I've not noticed much difference in my health.
You smoke for a week or so when you start, and by the end of that period, you just don't care about cigarettes anymore.
Be careful when you're driving with it though, apparently there is a marked increase in car accidents:
http://www.topclassactions.com/lawsuit-settlements/prescript...
Still safer than smoking probably ;)
I found it helps to drink a lot of water as well.
I quit earlier this year with the help of it. Actually everyone I know who ever used it successfully quit. The biggest thing I ever heard (and experienced) with it was strange and vivid dreams.
Still now I have vivid dreams of smoking a cigarette weekly (or more). Hoping that passes.
For weeks I had to fight habits: I needed something in my hand, I felt 'hungry' no matter how full I was (after eating smoke), I was watching a movie, etc.
After a couple of months the majority of the triggers are gone but occasionally I still find one. When that happens it isn't as hard because I broke so many of the other habits I know it will pass.
OTOH I enjoyed smoking, but I had to quit because I can't afford it and my other half is an ex-smoker.