You can pick up used DSLR's really cheaply these days, may aswell have one, might fuel an interest in finding out about Av & Tv modes, and white balance...plus lens' are what really make the big difference....I mean a canon EF 85mm 1.2 is gonna take a hell of a shot....
DSLR's take wonderful photographs, they are not comparable to a phone camera. Sure if you are taking snaps, I can sort of relate to the point, but do not denegrate DSLR's.
And yes,don't buy a DSLR to use it in Auto mode, you at least need a passing interest in amateur photography, or a penchant for art...
Here's a snap with my canon 500D, http://www.flickr.com/photos/casa_de_shay/5941345438/lightbo..., the bouquet is just great on the camera, can only dream of owning a 5D