Amnesty Int'l: Don't Call Female Genital Mutilation "Barbaric"
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To come out point blank and say this is barbaric is to tell 50% of these people that they have been unnecessarily mutilated by their mothers and grandmothers. And some of them will have done it to their daughters. It is human nature that they would deny what you are saying rather than accepting the part they have played and the harm that has been done them.
I and most westerners think this is barbaric but if you were trying to stop people from doing this you might consider telling them that it's been scientifically proven that it's unnecessary and could have a risk of complications. And I imagine this is why Amnesty chooses their language the way they do.
These are all words I feel confident in saying are accurate when applied to coerced female genital mutilation. While I appreciate Amnesty International's position - it's obviously impolitic to call someone these things while sitting at the table having a dialog - it's inappropriate to sacrifice our own moral clarity everywhere else.
And, frankly, the terrorists have an absurdly good argument : your prophet was a terrorist (he committed genocide through deceit and treachery to further his political goals - and not just once). What possible argument can you put against this as a "moderate" muslim ?
Start reading here : http://www.usc.edu/org/cmje/religious-texts/hadith/bukhari/0... , frankly, if you're still a muslim after a page of those texts, I have news for you : you're a terrorist supporter, or worse. How can any moral person believe that is moral ? Note that the idea of "islam is right, because muslims killed everyone who thought otherwise" is a recurring theme in muslim "holy" texts. How does terror not fit in with that ?
For the love of God, I hope no muslim turns out to be responsible for Boston.
Sometimes pride interferes with the ability to do good.
'Bad' is a pretty fundamental word in our language not easily removed. 'Barbaric' is different. We also don't sling around 'gay', 'retard', and 'ching chong'.
a) those qualities are something a person is born with b) they do not cause grievous harm to others
Meanwhile certain actions (such as practice of FGM) are both done by choice and cause harm to innocent victims. Which is why it is our right to call them barbaric.
Is there any human activity that you would not call barbaric - cannibalism? Slavery?
Anyhow, I don't truly care one way or another. I'm just saying I see where Amnesty is coming from. Generally I don't modify my language until there's a group specifically offended. That might not even be the case here and I might not mind offending FGM practitioners. But Amnesty is not trying to dehumanize people, because doing so in general leads to worse treatment of people.
That's 100% wrong (and is well addressed in the OP). Barbaric refers to the act itself. If Hungarians or Swedes decide to chop their girls' labia off, I will call that barbaric. And if it offends someone - I don't give a flying fuck. Just like we do not care if slave-owners are offended because we consider their practice barbaric.
I don't think that censorship is the right word. But for every time you write about FGM, find a story about an inspiring African grandmother and write about that as well.
Oh, give me a break! Try writing posting that bullshit the next time someone writes about American corruption.
FYI: I'm a bleeding-heart liberal.
There's never going to be a "better balance of stories in the media" for many purposes, waiting for that is going to make you a very disappointed person.
Like the author, I agree that this shouldn't be the case. There are specific things groups like Amnesty International are trying to change - and if you're trying to change those things then you've already passed judgement on them.