Node's public API is not changing in a backward-incompatible way every day (or even every week, or every month). The software is widely used in production.
I think node 1.0.0 should have been some time ago, and this release should have bumped the major version again.
"The software is widely used in production."
Depending on how you define the "public API", things have changed from 0.8 to 0.10 (streams API, for example).
Your definition of Node 1.0.0 is based on your conception of how others are using node. People can use experimental software in high-profile places without deeming the underlying technology stable.
"Node's public API is not changing in a backward-incompatible way every day (or even every week, or every month). "
Also: in general, development is highly nonlinear. I would say the API is stable when the core developers deem it stable.
"Probably" is, ipso facto, not normative.