Hacker News Reader

Reading the article and reading the comments almost gave me a panic attack. Just broke up for real today (the breakup dragged on for few months.)... 3.5 years of relationship ended for reasons that I can never never understand.. Why is relationship so hard?

View on HN

I'm guessing you're male, and that's why. Also, good luck and keep going.

I don't think so, [her] first name is "cathy".

Thanks for pointing that out! Hahaha. Xijuan is actually my first name but it is my Chinese name.

May I ask how it has to do with gender? Like the other comment has pointed out, I am a girl. LOL

Reply on news.ycombinator.com