All that is fine of course and true. But there are side benefits to "it" status. For one thing it can help you attract talent and get the type of attention that can lead to success.
Let me give you an example. I've helped both high profile people and people who are nobodies with advice. In general the nobodies are much more thankful for the advice (and have even sent me gifts as thank you's). The high profile people say "thank you".
"Name dropping". But the fact that I do the work for high profile people, well, I use that in my marketing to attract paid customers that actually put money in my pocket. And it works.
I think OP's issue relates to the weird, self-referential culture of Silicon Valley, where success is measured in buzz and money raised. It goes something like:
Build free software product -> ? -> profit
where ? = Get lots of buzz/hype, grow userbase quickly, raise VC money
Or course, this is similar to another business plan: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tO5sxLapAts
You might want to put that front and center in your home page message.
Also your "playapi" logo is totally unreadable in both Firefox as well as Safari (v-latest).
No VC we've talked to has ever wanted to hear we make marketing software for brands. But if I'm not caring anymore then yeah how we speak to our clients will be how we speak to everyone now. How very liberating.