That's a rather simple way of looking at it.

>>>Yes, looks like he chose to not have a kid

In the US this is not legally a man's choice.

Wikipedia>>>In some cases, men and boys that have been raped (statutorily or otherwise) by women have been forced to pay child support to their rapists.[1]

[1]http://www.ageofconsent.com/comments/numberthirtysix.htm

It's not super helpful to tell someone what they should have done a decade ago, and it doesn't support your argument.

all accurate assumptions.