You can call the shares whatever you want, but if the SEC deems them securities, they're securities. For an example of this, Prosper (a P2P-lending site) recently got nailed and is facing huge fines and several lawsuits over what they called "loan notes" and the SEC later said needed to be registered as securities. See:
http://fred93blog.blogspot.com/2008/11/prospercom-sec-cease-...
(Please don't take any of what I'm writing as legal advice, you really need to talk to a lawyer. There are ways to go the friends-and-family route that aren't horribly expensive.)