That's always been my experience. Not even close. One gives you legos that lets you make a plastic toy, and the other is an industrial machine shop for code.
I thought maybe I was holding VSCode wrong, though.
Likewise (Same with zed). I've given them a thorough try several times, assuming I was holding it wrong as you say based on conversations with others who use them effectively. I've reached the conclusion you say here each time.
I don't want to spend a lot of time finding, installing, and configuring the right combination of plugins to bring VS Code up to Webstorm level.
Also, I don't trust plugin/extension marketplaces anymore. There is lower exposure in having fewer dependencies.
At least, that was so in dynamic languages, like Python, and PHP, last I checked.
I use Rider but need VS for some things.
But there's plenty of examples.