The act of giving involves someone who receives, that doesn't make it anti-giving.
> it is anti-solidarity if you benefit from a system that you have never contributed
What's your stance on disabled children who can never sustain themselves?
> it is anti-solidarity if you benefit from a system that you have never contributed
What's your stance on disabled children who can never sustain themselves?
Evidence? Earlier you seem to be complaining that refugees are admitted or taken care of in the first place. The former is off topic IMO while the latter is taken for granted. Now you apparently shift to objecting that they refuse to work. Which is it?
You can't complain to society, the public at large, if you don't acknowledge this. Complain to other isolated individuals who "never agree to live in a society" or whatever.