> at this point does anyone really give a shit what consenting adults do in their private lives?

Perhaps people in your circle are above that. But you don't have to cast your net very wide to find someone who thinks that same sex relationships are an abomination.

> big pearl clutch on X about some other conservative being into consensual non-monagamy, and the collective response from everyone from all political stripes was a giant shrug.

Twitter was not representative of everyone and X is even less so.