That might very well be, but now people evidently seem to prefer not doing that, so what is your point?
"Just stop preferring that"? Good luck enforcing that.
"Just stop preferring that"? Good luck enforcing that.
I guess this will work for something like 10-20%? Maybe? (Speaking from a very german cultural background)
Even then, it would not solve any problems here, really.
On one hand, all of this is understandable, but on the other hand these policies do indeed raise the cost of having children.