In China, Delhi gang rape spurs online debate on democracy, then censorship
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I have also noticed that many Indians are, as always, blaming their government. The Indian populace cannot distance itself from these acts by blaming it on the government. The people in governance are elected from the same society as the girl and the rapists.
I am an Indian from Delhi and events such as these happen because we teach our sons not to respect women equally. Parents whose daughters are getting raped are also fueling this inequality by paying dowry, or worse, by killing girls at birth.
As a society we have brought ourselves to this and the only way out is slow, demanding and requires us to change our society so its based less in tradition and more on reason.
Surely, you're joking! India has some degree of free speech, but if you criticize Bal Thackeray, worry for your life. Not just because of Shiv Sena goons, but because of the police. How many rave parties have the police busted? Yes, that's part of being free. Heck! I was taken to the police station for questioning because I was out late at night. (I was coming back from a movie.) How many hoops should one jump through to start a business in India? Compare that to China.
But I agree with your conclusion.
Being a Indian I would gladly sacrifice some development for the freedom I enjoy in India. But what worries me is the cost of this freedom is getting higher by the day and the freedom is slowly taken away (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Information_Technology_Act_2000).
The fact that you are fluent in English and have internet access suggests that you much more educated and wealthy than the average Indian. Ask the average Indian how they feel about sacrificing some freedom for development, and the answer will be very different from yours.
You get to have your cake and eat it as well. The poor in India do not. And they would rather eat the cake (have development, rather than freedom). Because they are not even really free.
I agree I cannot speak for the poor in India. Both my parents were employed and my annual income was 5 times the per-capita income in India.
>You get to have your cake and eat it as well. The poor in India do not. And they would rather eat the cake (have development, rather than freedom). Because they are not even really free.
I agree they are not free. But I do not see how you can speak for them.
The analogy with enforced birth control is a poor one. This issue is about creating a civil society where laws are enacted and enforced for the protection and well-being of all citizens regardless of gender, caste, sexual orientation, economic status etc.
In a modern society, the state has a duty to protect innocent persons from harm. So far, India has been stunningly inept in this area.
Police regularly try to pressure rape victims into marrying their rapists, or accepting a cash settlement. See below link to another case a few days ago. The problem in India is society's treatment of women and India is among the very worst places in the world for a girl or woman to live. Somalia and Afghanistan are often considered safer places for females to live than India. The level of unreported violence is staggering and shameful. Until this is widely accepted and acknowledged, by more than a small minority cross-section of Indian society, little will change in India.
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/asia/india/9768614...
Your point is useful insofar as we recognize that the police are dominated from a particular subset of society--those who condone marrying rape victims to their rapists, for instance, implicitly by permitting it or explicitly by encouraging it.
Thus, it's something that needs to be dealt with, and perhaps that is an avenue to explore to find a solution.
But China looks like a pressure cooker without a release valve that once in a while explodes into gigantic tragedies (Taiping rebellions, Civil War & Communist Revolution, Great Leap Forward, Cultural Revolution, ...).
In countries where the state censors all media, the news would have been buried and rape? what rape? Don't mention rape, are you a CIA agent?
Before british influence, looking at the history, indians seem to have been very open about sex. Historically, the family trees worked in a way, male is dominant and the bread earner. Family ties are very much respected. So, male child is kind of like a retirement plan for parents.
During the british influence (probably, due to the christian missions?) a taboo on sex talk was instated. With increasing poverty, poor ones started loading off their "girl child burden" by child marriages. Here's where disrespect for women increase and probably seen as more of a "problem" than a cherished companion. It can be noted that dowry might be interpreted as a payment received to take care of the "problem". There seems to be a few revolts to ban child marriages by social reformers but that didn't completely solve the problem.
Fast forward few years, this created a void in companionship from his puberty to mid twenties until his marriageable age.
I think the society must evolve to completely solve the problem. I'm afraid that, due to this, youngsters are losing faith in traditional monogamy. At extremes, taking such bad measures due to the sorry state of respect for the opposite sex.
When the crux of an argument involves pinning the blame on external factors, the onus for substantiation rises.
I would be interested in seeing actual gender roles in pre-colonial India vs. today (as opposed to a more idealistic and less accurate view of it we may have today).
FWIW, I'm Chinese and these hypotheses aren't new to us either. There are all kinds of theories that attempt to blame social ills on the period of Western dominance in China, but inevitably they are unsubstantiable and more driven by the need to blame someone for something.
I believe we can solve problem by finding the cause or in other words going to the first principles. That's how most things work. Discarding a theory just on the basis of trying to list factors is probably not the best way to go about.
FWIW, I'm Indian and I'm not even a nationalist TBH.