In the case of youtube? I am paying quite a bit actually.
Updates are one thing, changes made specifically targeted towards manipulating users into spending more time on the site in ways they can’t opt out of (youtube shorts is a good example) are different. No one is bothered if YouTube updates to allow 8k streams. I am extremely bothered that YouTube does not allow me to disable shorts in the app. I don’t want shorts, they are a distraction and one more thing i have to guard against getting sucked into. Let me use the app how I want to use it, not how you want me to use it.