The difference is that 99.9% of software is just not as important as even your average two-lane bridge.
The recent cries to send random OpenAI people to jail frankly strike me as IT people just inflating our own importance. Oh no, HuggingFace got hacked. So what? Nobody got hurt, no individual lost their property. A company had to rebuild some server configs. The reason nobody cares enough to send someone to jail is that it's just not that important.
Also, even civil engineers very rarely go to jail when a building or bridge collapses. This is something everyone is using as an analogy when in reality it's very hard to prove criminal negligence.
> The point here being that maybe, just maybe, AI labs should not be shipping stuff they cannot secure.
Yeah, and when they say "okay, fine, we should slow down" everyone says they're making it up for marketing reasons.
And then if they actually slow down on their own everyone makes fun of them for being obsolete and switches to their competitor.
Tricky problem, isn't it?