I think it's a third thing: people ignore inconvenient issues as long as they get theirs. Conservatives just want to "win" conservative things and don't care if democracy dies in the process. They might even pretend democracy still exists with a single party in total control of the government.
That was the norm in 1930's Germany. They still had "voting", but only one party could win, and the state eliminated all opposition. (concentration camps were originally created to detain political enemies, and only years later started to include minority groups) Most Germans went along with it because as far as they could tell their nation was improving. Strong leader, better economy and rule of law, out with the old, convenient scapegoats to blame.
Russia and China both had long periods of murdering millions of people in order to break the people into submission for their new regimes. America hasn't had that yet, but history does rhyme.