"Feel" in the phrase "look and feel" refers to the behavior when interacting with the UI, as opposed to the aesthetic look. You asserted that literally nobody cares about a particular behavior that is the Windows equivalent to what has been a prominently-exposed configurable system preference in every version of Mac OS X/macOS.

Your weird hatred/obsession with Apple is preventing you from understanding that my argument wasn't even in favor of Apple's default behavior, but about software that doesn't respect the preference chosen by the end user who changes that setting away from the default.