> I choose to believe your word regardless, but I would urge you to take heed of the "love" part of "tough love" more, next time.
Why? If that is not the correct answer why would I supply more of the wrong answer?
In my experience encountering people who inject themselves into conversations where they were never invited to impart their unwanted tangential wisdom they are almost always unmedicated ADHD or on the spectrum. This is actually one of the top diagnostic criteria for ADHD evaluations.