many users of derivatives willingly lose money on them because the purpose of these contracts is to transfer risk to those willing to hold it.
I’ll keep paying though.
Traders are often happy to take the other side of that trade because they can trade against many counterparties, collect a small premium from each one, and try to ensure their counterparties won’t all fail in a correlated way.
Would you rather have net profits of 20, -10, 15, -5, -10, 25, -5 year over year, or profits of 4, 4, 4, 5, 4, 5, 5?
Your hung up on money, everyone is trying to explain that the exact same money is better when it is predictable versus erratic.
Yes, it is about the money.
And rarely is done by farmers.