foldr f z [x1, x2, ..., xn] == x1 `f` (x2 `f` ... (xn `f` z)...)
foldl' f z [x1, x2, ..., xn] == (...((z `f` x1) `f` x2) `f`...) `f` xn
The mnemonic here is that the folding function (aka the callback) replaces the comma.I find this slightly easier to remember than other languages. In contrast most other languages do not simultaneously provide a left fold and a right fold, so they do not consider this aspect, making things more difficult to remember.
That said I totally agree this requires more brainpower to read and write than map or filter. For this reason I have sometimes refactored code to use foldMap instead of foldr or foldl', so one no longer needs to think of the direction of the fold or the order of arguments.