It really sounds like you're trying hard to define a square circle. Your argument isn't even self consistent because what you described sure sounds like someone has power...
You seem to conflate "no one is powerful" with "no one has any power in any situation at all".
> You seem to conflate "no one is powerful" with "no one has any power in any situation at all".
The problem is not this, it is your claim that all power is equal, that there is no imbalance. No one is claiming God, only men