The people building the wheel of suffering and the ones complaining about it may both be Chinese, but they're not the same person.
It's not even a person, it's a system. There's a million people behind you who will take your job if you don't grind, and that goes for your boss as well.
I wonder what happens to China when this factor disappears. China workforce peaked in 2016, and city workforce will peak in the next few years. With the economy still growing, acute labor shortage is less than 10 years away.