Forgive me for whining, but this is exactly the sort of situation that makes me lament that "I hate this timeline we're living in."
downvotes are fine on this comment, I still believe that we need to be instinctually desireable of consensus instead of making everything a culture war using offense as a weapon of some sort. I'm all for free speech but I remember a comment about sometimes you need to get "the pig out of the parlor" lol