> Would your grandmother's fate be better if instead of kindness she would be spewing vitriol?

"Spewing vitriol" is loaded language used to smear people you disagree with.

The fact is that during the Nazi regime, some people did speak out against the atrocities, and some people did fight back. More people should have. Those who did resist would certainly have been described as "spewing vitriol" by those in power. I wish my grandmother was that brave.

> What about the other side of the coin - about all of those people, who survived, because they were nice and friendly?

Some things are more important than surviving.