Though not ancient taoist, Finland has a strong shame culture so we also have lots of popular lyrics that seem to align with the theme. Another cultural pointer is Hal Sirowitz' Mother said.

* Sadetanssi: Kuvasi kaltainen *

you said, little boy the wheel of the world is best pedalled so softly no one even notices

and beware the day you look behind when speed no longer notices the pedal pressed to the floor

you said, that boy don’t let him loose he doesn’t instantly know which way he should be going

if somewhere comes the sound of good behaviour breaking if somewhere they are having fun without your permission

you wear your shame with pride when you look me in the face I am made in your image

you’d rather be ordinary than stunted in your growth well-behaved rather than torn inside

when you open the cupboard in the morning the skeletons are laughing you don’t know a single one but still they laugh at you

when at night you look into the mirror and see my face I smile at you softly and turn my back

I’ve made every mistake you only dream of making I am made in your image