You could have said the same thing about building the Internet or the entire industrial control infrastructure. I mean, maybe they are negligent/incompetent, but I doubt that follows from your reasoning.

You have a simple tradeoff to let agents do their thing freely vs highly constrained. The constraints are good in theory but it's the same model that kept "classic" software dumb and unscalable (compared to what we're seeing now) for the past 50 years. You suggest that this tradeoff doesn't exist.

Then you have others like MIRI (Yudkowski) etc. swearing that there's no way to contain AI, and you argue that it's just incompetence.

At a certain level, it can be argued that's incompetence, but it's general meat intelligence incompetence against AI.