She got very upset and stormed off. 2 hours later, she messaged me: "sorry, I was rude, but I will not go to the casino with you."
Common language, culture, and context makes a more peaceful world.
As a South Korean - well, considering that my country once went through an existential war against our mortal enemies, the other Koreans ...
Common language and culture doesn't stop hate. Sometimes it just means that your insult will land on your target perfectly as intended.
I hope the irony is at least interesting, and you both feel better and/or worse off for it ;)
Cultural differences are what makes the world and humanity so interesting.
How would you know if the commenter is American or white or a man at all? Much less what "he" works with.
Or if the interaction happened "around the world" or in the commenters home country?
Or if any of the involved people spoke English at all?
Probably you don't care about any of that, because you are high on your own supply of hatred.
We live in a world of imperfect information, we vote with imperfect information, we marry with imperfect information, we invest with imperfect information, heck, now we even write computer code with probabilistic methods! And you are trying to imply that I am somehow a bad boy for noticing the obvious clues and inferring the scenario?
Are we now living in the world of the dictatorship of the literal, where we can't even make social discurse without a school marm appearing to stamp [citation needed]?
All that said, this is very typically brazilian, as I infer that you most probably are, due to the fact that nobody uses their real name on HN and thus, much probably your name is paying homage to the famous brazilian music who created Bossa Nova. This petit-burgeouise habit of tone-policing without really adressing the argument is a defining characterist of the brazilian educated elites.
Oh! I did it again! I inferred a conclusion from incomplete information. Pardon, mon ami!