Just a reminder they aren’t entities, you can curse and be as angry at them as needed for them to behave the way you want, you don’t have to be polite or consider how rude something is if it is effective at getting the model to generate responses you want. Prompting a LLM is a way to use the tool for a specific output, not to have a discussion with a peer
I think I probably wouldn't depersonalize people, but with the AI UIs acting very similar to an (overconfident) colleague at times, and spending lots of time with them, I don't know for sure that that won't start to affect how I interact with people in some adverse way, if I'm not consciously reflecting.
Perhaps that makes me weak or whatever, but I don't care. I don't like the way it makes me feel. It's the same reason I'm not going to hit my car or computer when it doesn't work. It's not because I think they have feelings. It's because that makes me feel bad, and I don't want to ever normalize that as a response to something, regardless of the target.