The critical two attributes in a successful partner without question are raw brainpower and an unwavering determination to succeed. Everything else is gravy.
Something else that is important in the context of compatible personality is someone who is very direct and critical when needed.
A friend of mine who works at Goog since the early days has noted several times that he frequently feels like the dumbest person in the room. He's quite bright and probably would be the smartest person in MOST rooms.
I think I would rather work somewhere I would feel like the dumbest person in the room than the smartest.