We don't actually know if a black hole has an inside. Some theories/hypotheses say spacetime just stops at the event horizon.
My point is, it’s not super meaningful to argue whether a black hole has an inside.
So does spacetime exist in some frames of reference but not others because those frames disagree on the radius of the apparent event horizon?
Also note that in general an event horizon doesn’t require a singularity.
What I’m trying to say is that there is nothing special about the region of space near the event horizon.