What I wrote was neither passive nor aggressive. My telling you now that I think your response was ill-considered is also not passive aggressive, though it's arguably aggressive.
any kind of softness in language like “i’ll-considered” sounds so sterile that i sense hatred underneath. too much time in big companies.
more sharing a crazy person take on how different words can be interpreted counter to the intent.
i hate being civil!
You’re in the prison of your own devise, the negative bias.