Now we just need someone to invent a gimmick disintegrating envelope. Stuff multiple letters with fake stamps into it, and mail several letters for the price of one!
Thinking about it now, Skype gives rings on the caller's side even before it's connected on the receiver's side. In that case, use synchronization. If it takes between 1 and 4 caller rings for the receiver to ring, then a call at 7:00 means "come now" and a call at 7:05 means "come in an hour."