You could make it a state capitalist society with theoretical public ownership and this disrespect towards people won't go away. Like LeGuin - a famous non-anarchist - pointed out in the dispossessed simply liberating the social relations and saying you have no rulers is not enough to build a society without unjustified power, and what power even is or isn't justified will rarely be an easy matter.
I don't know you can build this technology otherwise that is without coercion, with consent, the people that want it have convinced themselves it's too important to try to justify to anyone else why they need it, I think you could eventually do it. But for us at the very start of the development of what became this systems we went into it with a handful of admittedly brilliant people so convinced they have a right to reshape the world they didn't care if anyone else agreed to this, they would have been bad anarresti. If you wanted to build it in a fair way it might be another generation or more before the project would be complete, you would have to first convince people this is something that should be built in the first place, not just that you can build it in a safe way.