Yeah, editing TrueType fonts w/ B-splines which have a shared off-curve control point between two on-curve control points is nightmarish as a small change will ripple through the entire outline.
It is my understanding that only a couple of very expensive font editors use B-splines where there are three control points which ripple as I noted, however it seems that FontForge supports order2 (quadratic, TrueType) or order3 (cubic, PostScript).