I’m reading this thread and wondering if I’m missing something, why people are still talking about port knocking, port obfuscation, and fail2ban.
I use a cloud VPS. I ssh in via Tailscale. The cloud provider firewall blocks all incoming connections except traffic originating from Cloudflare IP ranges on port 443. My host plays dead to portscans. I check with nmap periodically. I have a break-glass backup terminal login option via my cloud provider dashboard (secured with MFA) in case Tailscale failed and needed investigation and repair.
This has worked well for me on AWS and Oracle Cloud. It’s quick and easy to set up. You need a timed service to refresh the ingress IP ranges, but any LLM could spit that out in a second.