For me it helped a lot to try to make containerized end-to-end tests and a custom TestMain for this, where I am using podman to run the integration tests. This way the end-to-end tests are forced to be on network level, and you can test protocol and API quirks much easier with LLMs.
Also, never forget to write a bootstrapping docs/ folder so that you don't have to re-explain these things all the time.
Faking responses I often do with environment variables, like:
ts := httptest.NewServer(...)
cmd := exec.Command(...)
cmd.Env = append(os.Environ(), fmt.Sprintf("MYCLI_PROD_ADDR=%s", ts.URL))
Of course, it's better still to go down this turtle stack (e.g. by spawning a local instance of your backend server instead of some faked handlers), but that adds more cost. I find the trade-off OK here.I'm quite sure go test compilates can spawn themselves, I'm doing it on many platforms.
But, the test setup I was referring to was explicitly not that: the tests are spawning the main binary, not themselves. Using bazel+runfiles this is pretty easy to do. With the pure Go build tool, I'm not sure what approach I'd use to "guarantee" that I get a binary build for the same environment as the test.