Since when? Because funny story, I only ever hear that narrative from tech people trying to put a self-serving spin on whatever egregious thing they want to impose on others. For the past few decades, the tech industry has consistently acted to wrestle control of people's own lives and place it in the hands of the few. The justification is always the same. It's about "keeping people safe" or "making tech more accessible." People are sick and tired of this, which is demonstrated by public backlash against tech.
> your desire is gate keeping that so only programmers can use it to write software for themselves
In what universe is learning "gate keeping"? A sane society doesn't criticize people for asking drivers to learn how to drive. What GP is asking for in the case of software development is much less than a driver's license, and yet you question their ethics.
If anything, you're the one trying to rob people of their opportunity to learn, which is a prerequisite to making informed decisions. You're the one advocating that we surrender control over computing to a handful of trillion dollar companies. That is an awful position to take.