Lottery Winner Jack Whittaker's Losing Ticket
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The best advice I ever read if you win the lottery: get an attorney to claim the money on your behalf and don't tell anyone. I had family friends destroy their lives after winning a substantial amount and it's not pretty to watch.
I've heard this story dozens of times, usually from morally-aggressive people as an anecdote for why money is evil. I've heard it discussed on radio talk shows, and also by radio DJs. I could swear I've read about it here before, and I'm sure I've seen it on TV too.
I'm not qualified to say whether that is a known psychological reaction, but it would seem relevant to the startup world.
It doesn't sound to me like he necessarily has a money-management problem. He probably still is quite rich. It's the rest of his life that is ruined.
I, like a lot people, have had daydreams about winning the lottery and what I would do with the money. I'd consider myself relatively fiscally intelligent, I'd make a few gratuitous purchases but most of the money would get invested. However, my daydreams also include giving a lot of money to the people I love. Seems like a harmless, selfless gesture, but Jack Whittaker's generosity towards his granddaughter contributed to events that eventually led to her death.
Sure, I have no idea what his granddaughter was like before the money, and maybe she was already on that collision course, but it made me think about how giving someone a ton of money could seriously negatively impact their life.
If you give someone like that a lot of money, it makes all their own accomplishments meaningless in the same way the subject of the story had his own accomplishments made meaningless by such a big windfall. They'll lose a big source of self respect. They'll resent you for it, even if they don't understand why.
I'd feel obligated to pay for modest things for family and friends, like large holiday and birthday gifts, partial college for nieces and nephews -- maybe buy an "AirBnB condo" near campus and give them free room & board. Maybe give away a cheap good used car every year. Maybe angel invest in a couple of friends' startups.
Maybe it's because of my poor roots, but I would try to help out the people around me who've helped me in the past, in small ways.
The interesting thing about the story is that no one knew that he was a millionaire before the lottery. He worked hard and didn't "look rich" so he could have a more normal life. Once he was a lottery winner, he got hit with a bunch of extortions. (Of course, he also did some stupid shit on his own accord.)
It doesn't sound like he "wasted it all" either. It sounds like he's still extremely rich, but that his life is completely fucked up.
One of the issues I think is that the appeal of Big Money to a lot of people is social status. That's what creates the temptations that lead these people to ruin. What most people don't realize is that the highest of the high in social status are torn down and eaten for sport because that's human nature.
Honestly, I can relate a lot of his rich/old fucked-up-ness with my smart/young fucked-up-ness that I had to deal with. When you have something "big", people fuck with you. Most people don't, because very few are that insecure and petty, but you get a disproportionate amount of creepy attention that comes from a very insecure 5% focusing on ~0.5% of the population. In his case, though, it's <0.00001%.
Not sure why people claim the money so quickly. I rarely check tickets I've bought within a month or two of the purchase date. I guess the thought of possibly winning is better than knowing that I wasted those few dollars on it, but also that nothing much would really change (other than a new laptop and camera).
Now, I wouldn't mind starting a business, selling it, and walking away with a few million or 10, it can give me time to grow into my money. But to win a public lottery worth 19's or 100's of millions... I'll pass.
The motivation for most (98%) people who want extreme wealth to want it is social status. That's not always a nasty thing. Sometimes it takes the form of extreme generosity, or large donations to children.
That's why the sensible path is so rarely followed. These aren't stupid or bad people. They try to use their money for its only remaining purpose (social status) to most people at extreme levels, and they get into a self-destructive loop, because high social status itself impairs judgment and leads to more recklessness.
Exceptions exist. Give $100 million dollars to any of the idiots on the Bravo "Silicon Valley" show and you'd have a dead crack whore. [0]
[0]: I have no sexist intent in using "crack whore". This assertion applies with equal strength to the men.