I am a woman with a grad degree in CS. I left the field because I was BORED. The field was full of stuffy types who were only interested in money. It still is.
Try changing the field, some areas are still exciting and full of innovation in tech. Maybe be part of a small team, or even better start your own. Lots of opportunities to find funding for women-run outfits.
ironic 'well actually..' response.
As a woman. I didn't see the need to point it out.
Fellow here who feels the same way. Industry seems hell bent on making the world worse by shoving processors where they don't belong. If that's the best this field can be arsed to aspire to, I'll find something else to do. No FIRE is worth knowing paving the path to a dystopian hellhole.