Wouldn't selling pills online effectively remove the dilemma? The doctors can avoid killing and the women are free to go through abortion
(Now this is assuming an actual increase in late(er) abortions: I believe I have seen evidence that increased availability tend to lead to earlier abortions, not to mention safer. And we need to couple all that with regular contraceptives and sex education, so unwanted pregnancies don’t happen that often in the first place.)
This way it could be certified how far the pregnancy is.