I was appalled when I saw that we could identify, not only visitor's names, but their friends, access public photos, and all of their profile information. All of this without any action on the user's part and before there were any privacy controls.
This is just the next logical step-federating data collection across multiple sites, not just FB.
I'm obviously in the minority since FB has grown tremendously in the past 2 years but I've not looked back. I dread the forthcoming lack of privacy and anonymity our world is heading toward.
Facebook Connect is the most benign of these sorts of things there are-- it's access to data, and the implementors of its widgets and API-- have an onus to protect it.
Now, of course, there's plenty of bad actors out there, and I'm sure it's sold and exchanged, but technically and legally speaking, you're forbidden from doing so.
I remember being disturbed when I saw that recently, and immediately sought out and installed a social widget blocker.
They were just two examples I could think of off the top of my head though. As the other commenter said about TWP, the practice is common. I see my name and other social data displayed on sites I've never signed up to regularly.
This is a bit over my head programmatically but that doesn't seem possible. If Facebook is serving something to visitors on my site, surely there must be a way for me to capture that data?