1) the VC system needs to be reformed. If founders are being screwed like this (and I think it's reasonable to say this is a screw), they're going to find other ways to raise capital. (And they are!) VCs should be in the business of cultivating founders, of encouraging and then rewarding them.
2) This is all the more reason to sell your company; it's more realistic (post-dot-com-bust) anyway, and obviously, it's the way to profit the most. Plenty of companies are buying these days. You just have to find a way to make something worth buying (and that's the rub, isn't it?).