If you don't want the US to have your date of birth, photo, fingerprints, etc then don't go to the US. It's that easy.
Amazon shopping doesn't need a photo or fingerprints or date of birth.
I, a US citizen, got fingerprinted by passport control in Austria 2 weeks ago, and they took a picture of my face and asked for personal details. That's pretty much how passport control works universally in any developed country, only the "how they get the information" changes. Sometimes they already have it and sometimes they ask for it.