It's not the 1950s. People's everyday problems are solved.
The market is flooded with products and marketing that frame the tiniest problems as world-changing and you're competing with the vibe-coding children of the rich who have virtually endless resources and connections.
Here's a way to think about it :
1) SharkNinja's newest product is a microwave that makes old french fries crispy.
2) The market is going crazy over it.
=> If the market values this, then you shouldn't take it too seriously.
Be patient.
Try gardening.
Do a little each day and every day. Engage with your customers. Put yourself out there.
If you don't enjoy working on it without instant success, maybe it's not worth your time anyway.
Hit up your network and find someone who genuinely loves marketing a new product, and ask for help.
However... Also note that the startup market has changed a lot over the past couple of years. AI has made people shift from "how can I pay to fix my pain point?" to "How can I vibe code an app to fix my pain point?" Marketing in those conditions is much, much harder than it has been in the past.
Posting too many times about your project may trigger some automatic and/or manual spam filters. https://news.ycombinator.com/newsfaq.html
Also thanks, as just by your comment I've discovered that there is a way to format comments :) https://news.ycombinator.com/formatdoc
Btw What's your project ?
When you actively participate in the community in good faith, you’ll generally get more feedback and engagement when you do want to showcase something you’ve created.