I was like this when I was younger, where a goal like this would entirely consume me, regardless of practicality, and more of a "see if I can". Some of the best days of my life, where I was most alive, were those times of complete, detrimental, obsession. As I grew older, and patterned by employment, it slowly faded, and sometimes I miss it so much.
(funny enough, I was once nerds sniped about a grids of resistors, to understand PCB trace resistance better, for high currents, because an EE said my intuition was wrong. I made a paint program where you could paint/paste an image, with red being + voltage sources, blue being negative, and greyscale being resistance, and it would show you the current flow through whatever you drew. I was able to prove that my intuition was actually correct!).
Kind of the point of a board called Hacker News. Doing it yourself while someone else holds your beer is on a totally different level compared to someone buying something off the shelf at a fraction of the cost.
For example, there are (or maybe were) lots of cheap LED controllers that use proprietary phone apps, but if you crack them open, you find that they're ESP-8266-based, and if you can find the right locations on the PCB, you can reflash them with WLED.
> I also found straddle-mount VGA to break off the board easily
> All of this is possible... but it's a lot of work for an incremental upgrade that doesn't resolve the jitter and audio dropout problems. Compare this to the HDMI2SCART which required more manufacturing effort, but fulfilled a previously unmet use case; even then the author stopped selling them himself because he couldn't find a better source for chips.