I've found Python + Pandas much better in this regard than R. Maybe it's just me, but for grouping, indexing, and manipulating tabular data, Python syntax just makes more sense.
That said, R is better for stats and matrix operations.
That said, R is better for stats and matrix operations.
I guess the data frame merge invocations are similar.
(I know patsy/statsmodels are introducing R's formula syntax to python, but that's not pandas.)
That's just me though.