The press nearly always gets this wrong and the viewpoint has taken root in our collective thinking.
Competition is about customers, not competitors. With competition, customers should get better stuff, more stuff and cheaper stuff.
I've seen very little "users losing" in the past 10 years, despite continuous reporting to the contrary. Were this not the case, we wouldn't even have a twitter, facebook or instagram - we'd all be using the same thing provided by the same company and it would most definitely be outmoded and suck.
Competition works. Get used to it, change sucks.