I have the RAM, but not the VRAM. What kind of speed/tps could you expect from a 3090 with 24GBs of RAM? I am somewhat tempted to pick a GPU with 24GBs of RAM.
Speed-wise, I don't have numbers, but it feels subjectively faster than Opus in Claude Code. YMMV.
Once you go above "a used 3090 at a decentish price", then I strongly recommend renting cloud GPUs or at least testing models using paid APIs. This allows testing your use case before spending piles of money.
Each token has to read all the active weights. I think that's around 40B parameters active. At a 4-bit quant that's 20GB. With 100GB/s (replace with whatever your bandwidth is) and you get 5 tokens per second.