The players here are the naive and regular non tech savy parents, rigid and burocratic gov orgs and greedy giant companies. What can go wrong?

There must be a culture and unwritten law among all sides. Some general points: 1) more parental control options beyond Family Link 2) totally avoid of flat ID check for all

There are so many minor controlled activities: alcohol, driving, sex and generally controlled: guns, drugs. Just learn from them.