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If you are a loving parent, all that crap you list is utterly irrelevant. I don't think I need to list in details why.

It sounds like you are speaking to someone who has actually experienced this and you have not. Trying to be civil here, I'll phrase it like this:

Try not to be so judgemental over a keyboard when you have no experience to speak from. Life is complicated.

The experience could easily run the other way around, you are doing the same thing you criticise.

But in a non judgemental way.